Re: Sibling killed and other dog has strange behaviors

In Reply to: Sibling killed and other dog has strange behaviors
Category:   Behavior Problems
Posted by:  natalie webster
Posted on:  June 27, 2002 at 16:37:36

: Our JRT Tucker (2 1/2) was killed on June 17th and leaving his sister Lucy (2 yrs). I have a question about the grieving process. She has been non-active and has no interest in play with her other play mates. We have to force her to play with her toys. Yesterday, we had left her for 4 hours and when we came home, she has pooped in her crate. She has also had excessive drooling, to the point that it look like puddles. We took her out that morning and at lunch before we left her. She started the drooling on Monday and I took her to the vet, who gave her a clean bill of health. Is this behavor normal for a grieving animal. Note: She has never been without Tucker before. Should I get another JRT as a companion or should I give her more time? Has anyone had any similar symptoms? Thanks for your help.

Response:

Hi Natalie,

First, let me say I am very sorry to hear of your loss of Tucker. You must be hurting as much as Lucy.

Yes, it it very normal for a dog to mourn the loss of another, especially if they are closely bonded. When we lost our Biff, Buffy (his daughter) went off her feed and became lethargic for several weeks. She had 'sad' eyes and searched for him everywhere. There's no doubt in my mind she grieved as much as we. Biff and Buffy were best buddies :)

Natalie, I would wait 3-4 months before getting another companion for you & Lucy. You both need time to grieve. Wait until you can look back on Tucker with fond remebrances and smiles. Bottom line is you'll know in your gut when the time is right.